This page is dedicated to our NF/Os(non-fictional others) and info about our boundaries related to sources & doubles!
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NF/O is basically the same as F/O(fictional other, a dedicated relationship that is fictional or does not take place in real life) and we use the terms interchangeably for ourselves, but to us it means that our F/Os are actually real in some way, usually due to there being an introject of them in our system, imagining them with a will of their own or they are able to communicate somehow.
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We take this very seriously, these characters mean a whole lot to us and there is no part of this that is joking or trolling. We ask that you engage with respect and dignity about it, we've been in the self-shipping community for over 7 years and will continue doing it. We are not attracted to real human persons and do not partake in dating culture!!
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There are also many in-system relationships that occur between headmates and we all kind of share or trade-off F/Os, they may rotate depending on who fronts.
Rouxls Kaard (DELTARUNE)
Rouxls is our most recent one, and also the strongest since our last main one! He is currently active as a caretaker subsystem to help us feel more grounded and loved.Many of us take an interest in him, and he is very receptive to having multiple partners.He is egotistical and loves himself but is also extremely compassionate and fun-loving!!
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Sans (UNDERTALE)
Sans was our main, paired with one of our now-dormant host members and was a very strong love interest for the system for several years. He too served as a grounding, loving presence and is still considered the soulmate of said host.He was very laid back, protective and kind. Sans was the first time we were introduced to what real love may have felt like and opened up a lot for us.
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Sebastian Solace (Pressure)
This one is reserved for one of our protectors, Abysal, who is also a fish. They look up to him with respect and mutual understanding, many other members consider him hot or interesting too.Sebastian is snarky and apathetic, but can be protective and a good listener.
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Alastor (Hazbin Hotel)
Alastor is an older love-interest that a few of our members were into for a short amount of time, but he still hangs around sometimes and we have a general fondness and warmth for this character!He is clever and a little obnoxious! Very anti-digital for some reason.(While we can and do separate the art from the artist, we do not care for Vivziepop drama and do not have an opinion about it. We like the show and her artstyle, fuck off.)
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We also have less romantic and familial F/Os not listed here!
Boundaries
Do not label us with things like "fangirl/fanboy", we have nothing to do with them.
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Do not say we are "dating" or apply human concepts of sex and normalized culture to how we engage with the characters and in-system relationships. We are very queer-oriented and do not agree with the common definitions or expectations of love.
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F/O doubles are fine, but some of our members with the stronger romantic connections are uncomfortable seeing their lover with someone else so use caution and know that we MAY distance from you for it.
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Introject doubles/fictives are fully welcome to talk to us! Be advised that we may find ya'll attractive but we do not want to engage romantically/sexually. Our own fictives also love to talk to their sourcemates and other versions of themselves!
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If you have some big problem with self-shipping and pro-ship you should probably leave us alone. We don't want to argue about it and make this a moral thing, people can and do ship what they want and you don't have to understand it to respect them.
Page is a work in progress. May add/change things at any time.